I've had some pretty serious brain function increase lately. In fact I've had some of those "ah ha!" moments that change your life.
The most major of these moments I'd like to share because it effects so many women. I dare say it effects so many people.
I know. I know. I'm not going to get all new age on you. I'm gonna get all: hey man this is cool you need to think about this, on you.
It's about how we look about ourselves. It's about how I've looked at myself and how I now look at myself. It's about how I viewed others and how I now view others.
I am just like every one else.
For all this time (30 years) I've had the feeling other people were more together. That they somehow knew some secret that made their lives perfect. Somehow they were cool, and I would never be that. I would never understand the world, or love, or be cool, or smart.
I've come to the realization that people view me that way. That I have friends that say "you're so calm and collected" or "I don't know how you do it" and they're thinking the same thing that I've thought about them. That there is some secret that she knows that I will never get.
Here's the secret: we bring all our history to the table when we view the world and the people in it. No two people hear a conversation the same way. No two people have the same experience the same way. No two people think the same way.
We all have our "truth" about the world. Some people's "truth" is sad and others is joyful. It isn't a constant thing either. It can change upon the knowledge we gain. It changes with our physical well being. It can change with the weather and the season.
To sum it all up: no one has all the answers. No one ever will. To seek the answers to life is the human quest. Who am I? What is my purpose? Why am I here? To be a student of life. To find a higher understanding of self and others and human nature and to be "free" of stigmas we put upon ourselves and others.
I hope this makes some sense, because having had this revelation has changed everything for me. I feel a deep calm in my heart that I have been seeking for a long time. This is just the beginning at the new year.
A perfect time to start.